Leave It
My dog taught me how to live better. Here's what happened.
We got Waffles, our first dog. Mini-Golden Doodle. Pure love with fur. Here she is:
The trainer taught us all the usual commands: sit, stay, come.
But one command changed everything:
"Leave it."
Simple words. Powerful lesson:
Dog sees something interesting
You say "leave it"
Dog walks away
Life goes on
Then it hit me:
Bad thought? Leave it
Angry email? Leave it
Office drama? Leave it
Past mistake? Leave it
Future worry? Leave it
Your brain is like a puppy:
Wants to chase every thought
Gets excited by problems
Needs clear commands
Responds to consistency
But here's the magic:
Add two more commands to "leave it":
Now you have a complete system:
"Leave it" stops the chase
"No absolutes" kills the drama
"Everything OK" brings peace
I use this daily:
Client angry? Leave it
Competition winning? No absolutes
Market crashing? Everything OK
Sounds too simple? Ask Waffles. She's happier than most humans.
Want proof it works?
Sleep like a baby
Smile like Waffles
The secret isn't complex:
Dogs don't overthink
Dogs don't hold grudges
Dogs just... leave it
Think for yourself. Test everything. Keep what works.
And pet your dog while doing it.